Reflections on Trust for AI by Teenagers and Parenthood (A message from Prof Goski Alabi)

I have always believed in the power of technology and innovation. Artificial Intelligence (AI) is one of the most transformative tools of our time, with the potential to enhance learning, solve complex problems, and open up new opportunities for progress.

But while I am a champion of AI’s potential, I also urge caution. A recent BBC report told the heartbreaking story of a California teenager who tragically took his own life, with his parents now suing OpenAI. They believe that his growing reliance on AI deepened his struggles, highlighting the risks of placing too much trust in machines that cannot replace human empathy, values, or guidance.

For teenagers, AI can feel like a trusted companion or even a substitute for real conversations. For parents, there can be a temptation to assume that technology can fully guide or support their children. Yet, this tragedy reminds us that AI no matter how advanced remains a tool. It should never replace the critical role of human judgment, compassion, and family connection.

As parents and guardians, it is our responsibility to teach young people to approach AI with curiosity but also with caution. We must encourage dialogue, instill discernment, and remind them that while AI can support, it cannot feel, care, or fully understand.

True innovation is not just in creating intelligent machines. It is also in raising a generation that knows how to trust wisely, live responsibly, and use technology as a servant not a master of life.